What I want is for H to give up OW and give our M a chance. But I can't make that happen. Only he can. I don't want a life without him but I am forced to start thinking about what that will look like. This has all happened so fast.


Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming