GB, Az, Dwh, Thanks for the replies! I'm not sure how it works either but based on how everything has went so far, I would think we'd be able to resolve everything in mediation. That's why I feel like the end is near.
My problem with sending a letter like that is I don't feel STBX is anywhere close to working on R. She is obviously conflicted but she appears to be more upset about her loss of friends and normalcy then she is about losing me and MR. That's not a R I would ever want to be in. See, STBX opened this door and now I realize that I deserve better.
STBX called me on our wedding anniversary and acknowledged that it was sad. I asked her why she felt that way and she couldn't really tell me, just that it was sad.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
