[Lifes Twists]

Bright,

you should know by now that you have to take the advice from friends and family with a grain of salt. They are all well meaning , but will be biased towards you. Only you can hear whats in your heart and follow it. So take care in listening to their advice.

Regarding the vacation home. I agree its time to move on. If you keep going their expecting a different result then ask your self what the definition of insanity is.

get away from as much of the shred things as you can and get some distance from the H. Keep the business relationship as just that. Dont put any effort into cultivating anything more right now. Let things ride and be true to yourself and concentrate on you right now.