I'm very curious to hear what you found out from WAH! Did his def. of "work things out" match yours? I'm with your C on this... we HAVE to make sure our communications are clear or it can destroy progress!
I'm also wondering what boundaries you will put in place if your definitions match.
Keep your hopes in check & try -as we all are- to be patient in this! (We must develop the patience of a saint!) Hang in there!
Me:46 H:42 T:7 M:5 MD(H SD):24 MS(H SS):19 MS(H SS):13 Separated on & off most of '15 WAH last left 8/15 WAH changed locks & Bank account of joint business 8/15