I am not saying you communicate through your kids.
Absolutely the reverse in fact. I am saying S18 and S16 have an independent R with each of you. If there is serious admin direct to WW. Otherwise no discussion, let your two older boys R with their mum, if they don't then let go of it. not your concern. Admin is straight up, going X, bought Y, needs a wash behind the ears etc. that's it. Nothing to misinterpret. If its schedule online scheduler.
Cool as a cat, that's great.
You are an amazing dad, dwh, tremendous.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW