Sounds like she has completely lost it. She probably had a crazy fantasy about this other man would give her a better life than with you. She quickly realized that this was a fantasy and that she was losing you then she panicked. I would insist she sees counselling at the very least if not a psychological evaluation before you even talk to her about getting back together, if that is even what you want. I would also insist in seeing your kids before you talk with her about getting back together as well. Sounds like you have some control back here but don't abuse it. Be fair and respectful and strong. Good luck brother.
M: 48 W: 45 Married: 16 years D1-14, D2-11, D3-9 BD: May 29 She moved out 2 weeks later with kids Awaiting mediation
