H has started an affair 2

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What are your options? You can't let H damage your job. If you had to could you afford an apartment and a babysitter with the kids? You may need to get the in-laws to babysit. [censored] but H is putting you in a tough spot and you will need to take action to deal with it. H knows he can't be late yet does it anyway, unreliable. No point talking to him again, just do something on your own. If the in-laws ask why they need to babysit just tell them to talk with H about it.