Az, your last post is brilliant. When I read it, was like a light bulb went on in my head. We are dealing with people who are extremely unhappy in life and blaming us, and in some cases seeking that happiness through another person. They don't know how to make themselves happy. It's always up someone else. Thank you for putting that out there today. Really helped my mood.

TKD,I'm in the same boat as you brother. I've turned my life around in a positive way in almost every aspect. Better father, friend, brother, son, you name it. Best physical shape I've been in for 25 years. And I know my WW has noticed because she has commented several times. But it's never enough. She's convinced she cannot be happy with me. The current OM is the answer. Forget the previous OM that all fizzled within 2 years. This guy is different, he's the one. There's nothing we can do about it, until our wives wake up to reality. Sadly, that may come way too late or never at all. Just keep being the best you can be and let others appreciate it.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.