yeah, renew keep on dong watch your doing, I don't know how your keep it up and you are so wonderful for doing it! she will come around-she still has feeling for you, if she didn't even though you are letting her stay in the house, she would already be moved in with OM by now. the om must be byside himself with her still living with you!!! he may start pressuring her in move out which will confess her even more and her fog will be thicker, but then she will see you, still by her side, listening to her and being there for her!!