I agree - he isn't 100% in. I think he doesn't have the feelings he believes are needed, and he doesn't think they can come back.

I have tried to just take a step back and not discuss R and keep some distance. We're friendly and he calls me pet names, but he said he feels pressured by me and by the MC.

What were you thinking about when you said H has his own trust issues?

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17