My W had no problem sending the NC letter so I am unsure what the hang up is with your W. But mine was a very short lived EA so it didn't take as much to get her out of the fog. And she only sent it after the OM kept trying to contact her. He was blocked on the phone and FB and only I could see he was trying to make contact.

Have you had contact with the OM? Does he know you are aware of the A? At his next attempt to contact her maybe you respond to him from your phone that your wife's attorney will be sending him a cease and desist letter if he continues to try to contact her. And that all messages are forwarded to you (maybe a lie, but WTH it may work). I realize this is not DB type advice where your W is suppose to decide to do this. May let someone else weigh in on this strategy.

Last edited by mvgfwd2; 09/08/15 04:13 PM.
Me:49 W:45
M:19 T:22
EA confirmed and ended 8/2014
S:19,17 D:9,5