Renew, just checking in on my lazy Sunday. What good news. This all seems so good and I think (IMHO) wife is starting to unconsciously vacilate back towards being more comfortable with you. Sounds good.

Just a side note, I was trying the distancing thing physically with my H. He seemed to get annoyed. We'd sit on the couch and I'd have a blanket and wait for him to say he'd like to share it or I could stretch my legs over him.

Today, just for grins, I asked if I could share my blanket and stretch out and he smiled wide and said yes. He was very pleased. Just goes to show you, sometimes initiating contact isn't that bad. So, you know when she doesn't want touch, go ahead, it seems to work for you also. She certainly seems to appreciate it, perhaps that one snap at you was just her feeling like she was cranky because she was confused.


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