Answer to: "why didn't you hear it from ME?"

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I am on the rollercoaster ride with so many here. Literally since we went to an amusement park over the weekend. In the same day that we had a great connection in the park halfway through the day with our kids, she got livid with me at night for something she misinterpreted about something I did. That carried into the next day where she picked a fight with me in my room. But by nights end with validating and trying not to react to things, she was vulnerable and in tears and then caring more for me than she has in months. I have to be the one on an even keel, that is what I am learning.