I've been very busy with work lately, and I know I haven't been following up on everyone else's threads, I hope to catch up shortly.

Rottzilla, Anita, Thanks for your posts.

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when she said you could get woman I think she is saying that because in a way, she feels guilty for having on OM and you don't have anyone, she wants to make sure you have someone to be with you.




Yes, I think there may be a lot of truth in that. She asked me about it again today. She asked if I wasn't dating because I thought it might affect her relationship with me, or if I wasn't dating because I didn't want to. I told her it wasn't what I wanted. She seemed to already know the answer, as if she were asking just to hear it again.

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When she says she is not, respond "you can't tell me what to feel. I feel that you are the most beautiful woman...




I told her something very similar to this over the weekend when she started talking about all her imperfections. I even listed some of my own imperfections for her, saying our imperfections are often part of what make us beautiful. She didn't really know what to say, just nodded and said uh-huh.


My W is my best friend