Have i been making mistakes too long part 5

[dwh15]

I'm sorry for what you are going through. Wish there was something I could say that would make you feel better but there isn't. You are still way too attached. And that is part of the problem with living with your W. My WW moved out 6 months ago and as hard as that was, I think it was the best for both of us. I have had a very difficult time detaching and only over the last couple of weeks do I feel like I've made some decent progress.

Yes, I still struggle every day but not nearly to the extent I did a few weeks ago. I was in just as bad of shape as you. WW on my mind every second, unable to focus on anything but getting her back. I went around 3 months from BD and couldn't really accomplish anything other than basic household chores and taking care of kids.

All I can tell you is that it does get better with time IF you can detach and focus on GAL activities. But I believe it's going to be very hard for you to make much progress while seeing your W every day. I agree about you staying in the home though. If she wants to leave, let her. Hang in there brother.