Thinking about how long that door stays open, I hate to put a timeline on anything but I think Christmas/New Years time frame. That will be about 11 months from the start of this mess I learned to know as my life.

That is always subject to change but if nothing improves until then I think that's when I have to start to search for my new life? I don't even like saying that but a person has to know his limits right?

Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home