Jim0987 #15 - Further on up the road

[jim0987]

So i'm just posting this observation really because I find it curious to see where things are.

Today is my D's first day of school. XW bought her round to mine so we could take her together. It was the first time she has come into my house (our former marital house) in some time and to me, she seemed pretty uncomfortable with it.

we spoke briefly about a few things related to the kids but basically didn't chat - on the way back we pretty much walked in silence. we were in each others company for about 40 minutes and I don't think there was a single word uttered by either of us that wasn't about the kids, except for a point where I asked after the cats and said I missed them.

I don't think it means anything one way or the other except to illustrate quite clearly the distance that exists between us now. I guess i'm just reflecting on the shame that it came to this.

And V, yes I was planning on my next R failing because of a spectacular mistake, possible involving a Porsche 911, 3 Capybara and a flamingo called Derek Seriously though, I take your point. thankyou.