if this is how I am going to be treated it will be the longest 14 years of my life.
No. It wont. Because, eventually, you will close this door to your life and a new one will open. You arent going to sit around for 14 years waiting for her to decide to come back to be with you (at least, I hope not). And by truly going through this process and learning about yourself, your needs, and your values, you will find someone that will lead you to a great life for you and your son.
Once that happens, you just wont care any more if your XF sends you a good night text.
