I just have to type this out to vent a little. Last night after S4's goodnight phone all with XF, I sent her a text message asking a question about school for him. She responded and we got a few other things ironed out. All having to do with S4. I honestly wanted to just take care of these things while she was on the phone but forgot until they hung up.
When the conversation was over (a total of about 4 or 5 messages from each of us), to end the conversation I said "well he fell asleep so I'm going to follow his lead and go to bed, goodnight". No response, if there is one thing that irritates me to the core it is things like that. Am I no longer a human being? I have a heart and want this all to at least be under circumstances that we aren't always poking each other in the ribs...
I know it shouldn't bother me but to be honest it really does. It just makes me feel like XF cares about me as much as a piece of dirt on her shoe. No matter what we have 14 years of raising a child together, if this is how I am going to be treated it will be the longest 14 years of my life.
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home