Have i been making mistakes too long part 5

[tkdmme]

The weekend went pretty well until yesterday.

The W and I were playing ping pong and having a great time. I asked if she wanted to bet on the game. Loser does all laundry for a week. She said no and instead said "if you loose you have to move out". Pretty messed up if you ask me. Any way, this led to a small argument. She ended up crying and saying that she is sorry but she cannot see us together ever again as H and W. She said she wished she felt differently for the sake of the whole family but she doesn't. She said she has been waiting to see if she would feel different but she hasn't. She then said again that she didn't want to end up like my mother. She has said this many times before. My mother and father have been married for 40 years. Yes they have had some difficult times but they always have been able to work it out.

I told my W that my mother was happy and at least she never gave up on her marriage. I also told her that I did not appreciate her using my mother as an excuse for her actions.

Nothing more was said. The rest of the night went well. We grilled chicken ate and went to bed.

I know I probably didn't respond well to her during the argument and I know this another set back in DB. I probably didn't respond correctly to the argument but im am trying to get better.

Any thoughts or comments would be appreciated.