I agree, alot of baby steps. My OM used to hate the fact that I spent more time with him than with OM. but I was going back and fourth between both of them until I realized what I really wanted out of life. MY OM told me that I spent too much time with OM, because I was still in move with him and he was right! Once I learned that I needed and could take care of myself, things regarding my ex just fell into place and maybe this is what happening to your w. boy, she is really comfortable speaking to you about OM, maybe it's because she doesn't love him. I never, ever spoke to h about OM but now that I'm not living with him sometimes comments do come out.
