Part of me is still hoping fir a Hollywood ending where my H at the last minute decides to fight for me and our H. I need to let it go.
We all get it BT. I felt this way for the first three months for sure, and then after that it's been a slow acceptance. Shoot, even still it can be hard to believe because it just looks so stupid we can't believe we're really throwing it away. It's like, I get that you've been telling me this for a year, and that we're filing, and mediating, but it looks so stupid to us that we can't believe someone else could look at this and come to such a destructive conclusion.
The bad news BT is this is a LONG road. IC told me 3-5 years. Oof. It does get easier though, particularly when you're making good decisions for yourself along the way.
Hang in.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
