Just catching up on you sitch. It sounds like you have a lot of positives in hour life right now. Good for you.
To answer your question. There is no way I would move right now. That is a huge step. I would validate how she feels and let her know you are not comfortable moving. If she gets angry just stay calm and let her know you understand.
In loved reading your story and look forward to updates!
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."