R,

Quick read through here. Thanks again for stopping by.

I would say you are way detached. I could not do what you are doing at this point, having her in the house, talking about OM, but I guess we must do for love what we can.

Your ability to listen and validate and not pressure is tremendous and something we all hope we can strive for.


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I think distancing in your sitch will only relieve the pressure W is feeling.




I would say you are well on the way and I think you are seeing results.

I like what you said about always loving her, though you did not always act loving.

Hang in. You are doing great.

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