Quick read through here. Thanks again for stopping by.
I would say you are way detached. I could not do what you are doing at this point, having her in the house, talking about OM, but I guess we must do for love what we can.
Your ability to listen and validate and not pressure is tremendous and something we all hope we can strive for.
Quote: I think distancing in your sitch will only relieve the pressure W is feeling.
I would say you are well on the way and I think you are seeing results.
I like what you said about always loving her, though you did not always act loving.