Need advice for a WW who left Part 3

[Vanilla]

That which Zues said ^^^^^^^^

I can see much justifying, but really you don't need to. Your s16 and s18 are old enough to R with their mum, just get out of the way would be my advice. If they can't cope then step in but otherwise "s16 and s18 can communicate with you WW directly, I Dwh have come to the conclusion that I can get in the way. Please ask them directly"

s10 and S8 somewhat different, but they too can chat to their mum and dad. Have you thought of an online schedule tool? I believe HeavyD uses one, and I forget who advised it.

Open about the younger kids (admin) and broad brush on the older boys and zilch nada on you.

Cards, close to and chest, in any order.

V