Thanks Zeus. Just to clarify on that 1st part of the convo, I got nervous when she asked what time we got home. S16 was home alone all day, since he decided he didn't want to be at the beach. I did call to check on him a couple of times and he was fine. But I was worried that the question from WW had something to do with her keeping logs, similar to what I am doing. And I didn't want to give her an exact time I got home, so that she could try and use it against me later.

Overall, I agree with you though, and will try to keep it in mind for future use. As a quick update, WW did text about an hour after this all went down, and we made arrangements for her to come pick up S10 and S8 and take them shopping for new school backpacks. She stopped by briefly, we had some polite conversation about first day of school tomorrow, and as she was leaving, I told her I would be happy to let her know in the future about plans when I took the kids out of town. That seemed to make her happy, but her overall demeanor was still one of stress, which seems to be the case every time I see her lately.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.