New Terrain? Or more of the same? (New thread)

[Zues126]

Thanks for the update Dif.

I'm guessing you're already heading this way, but I'll share my two cents.

I like the letter...it was not straight DB necessarily (telling not showing actions, and some could argue it could be judging/controlling), but it had some good truth dart element, and hopefully it does sit with her.

Now I think you need to STFU for a while. The last couple months you have been truth darting and truth darting and truth darting. She's heard what you've had to say, now it's just coming off as a game of pursuit and control. The letter was a little different, and may serve a purpose...if nothing else for YOU. But I think you should be able to go the rest of your life without any more truth darting. If your message is you don't want to be friends with her, time to SHOW her in instead of TELL her.

She knows your number, and knows your stance. Get mysterious. GAL. 180 (including no pursuit). And go back to YOU. And working on YOUR issues. The road has forked, you need to stay on your side now.

Again, it looks like you were getting ready to head that direction. Just encouraging you and agreeing it's the only way to go from here.