While W is happy to chat with me when I initiate convos, she has pretty much flatout turned down every invitation to go somewhere or do an activity together. I'll continue to intitiate talk with her, but I've just about given up on asking her to do something with me.
On another note, W has twice in the last few days complained about this mucscle or that muscle being sore, rubbing said spot herself, and pointing out the exact spot to me. Each time I said if you ever want a massage, all you need to do is ask. She just pauses for a second of reflection, or says oh, and then we talk about something else.
