Thank you FY for your kind words.

W called me last night at 9 pm, and she was kind towards me (?) She again brought up the topic of her going to a Bible study starting on Tuesday nights, but needed me to take s14 to his football games/practices.

I have been going on Tuesday nights to 'Divorce Care' at my church, and so there is a conflict. W remembered that I "go to church" on Tuesday nights, and she offered to look for another Bible study. She was thoughtful and nice to me - I am frankly not used to this.

I told W that this is not a problem, that it was time for me to "move on" from my Tuesday night program (I have been thru 'Divorce Care' over 3 times now), and that I was thinking of going to a Bible study myself on Monday nights. It all works out.

Perhaps W is getting cold feet about the idea of attending a Bible study. But I didn't want s14 and I to be the reason for her not going. Everybody in America enjoy your Labor Day.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace