When is kindness enough?

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Zephyr, Fogg: Thank you for your words.

So many things have happened since I arrived that I don't know where to start.
I arrived with my kids on Saturday evening. I kissed W and was very cheerful. She acted the same. She had to sleep for two hours with S9 because he missed so much his Granny he could not fall asleep.

Sunday morning W wanted to talk to me.
She explained she needed to set a clear plan for the upcoming months to preserve her own health. We discussed kids activities, finances, divorce agreements.

I went outside to play with my kids.
The landlord made lunch and S9 lunched with them. He then went to their flat, which is downstairs from ours. He told us not to worry, S9 was "at home".
I mentioned this to W (because she is moving out) and she said: "you cannot have everything". She keeps saying she wants a new house, one with another "light and energy".

In the afternoon W told me her mobile phone had been hacked by someone who had entered her Facebook and Gmail. I gave her lots of advises concerning Android devices and made her install an antivirus. I was concerned about this conversation because I had decided to have a conversation with her later on regarding my own spying. It was not clear if she was accusing me of this recent intrusion.

W went out to show the kids the flat she found. She invited me but I declined. She knows I am against the move because the kids are better where they currently live. When they came back she told me at dinner time she would listen to their opinion and only then decide. The kids came ecstatic with the new flat "we are all moving to" because it has fire stairs and a place to store bicycles (in a town where is madness to ride a bike). It has one bedroom for each kid and a couples bed for mom and daddy, said S9.

We watched a movie while eating popcorns. Exactly like old times.

During dinner kids decided to move. I stayed silent, but still think we are all moving.