Just wanted to say I think the detaching and mystery things are great, but do them with caution. I would like to reemphasize Rotzillas statement about monitoring, take it slow and definitely monitor.
I like your emotional availability and physical detachement (roof work, washing car) and talking about how women find you attractive is good. Too much borders on being seen as not caring, manipulative, spiteful, or arrogant. Monitor for results first before making more statements or taking more steps. Just thoughts.
