Disgusted Stay at Home Daddy

[asitis]

Let her actions tell you where she really is. If she follows through, then you work from there.

In the meantime, your no response seems both prudent & appropriate. Again, all meetings between you should take place in public. So that it's not he said - she said. It may shock her that you are wary of her, but it was her bad choice, and you are smart to be wary.

Reach out to any friends or family who can be supportive during this really difficult turn of events.

Good luck.