I am behind, as usual V, but catching up today. Sorry about your flooding issues. That is really tough, but hopefully you can find a solution soon.
As far as XH, I think it was Sotto who commented about how they like to invent their own realities (what a shock that I agree with her...LOL), and sister, I can SO empathize with that because that is EXACTLY what my XH did. You just keep on being the classy Lady V we all know and what goes around will come around to him.
Much love to you, ma'am. Keep taking care of V.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids