This just tears me up to see a stitch like yours. Are there any types of assistance in that county to help a husband & dad? You might even ask the school social worker to direct you to any available agencies that could provide emergency shelter & food till you can do better. There may be a church nearby that can help. The last thing you need to do is go back to her house.
Also, check on legal aide to get advice on the next steps. Whenever a woman accuses a man and he goes to jail........it leaves him one top priority. He has to protect himself from her! I don't think she is through with this type of treatment. Her next stepmeat be to get full custody.....any way she can. If you have any access to the bank accounts, I think she'll have that stopped. So, don't linger about getting legal help. Her lawyer has warned her about what to expect if she D you. She may decide to tip the scale in her favor by making you appear less than a devoted family man.
You really cannot afford to give her the benefit of doubt.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
