DBing for my best friend, my W.

[rottzilla]

I've stopped initiating massages for now...

I think this is best, given the rest of this post...

"You're not very good at this separation stuff."

Does your wife see you as pursuing her? Or does she initiate all/some of this time together? This makes me uncomfortbable.

I asked W why don't we do the same? W said, "well that's different, they're roomates," to which I replied, "well, arent' we kind of like roomates right now?" She wasn't sure how to reply.

I think I like this. If she didn't know how to reply, does that sound to you like she hadn't thought of you as just roommates?

--W and OM had bumped into someone we know at a restaurant. Said person saw W again at a later date and asked if she was dating that person and whther it was serious. W said she answered yes on both counts. GRRRRR.

UGH. Nasty. Is W feeling uncomfortable with your closeness right now and looking for new ways to distance? (blaming all your time spent together on you, not liking you touching her, but liking it at the same time, etc.)

just leaned towards me and said something like "Boo!" startling me awake and us laughing. The third time she actually reached over and tickled me for a few seconds.

Nice physical touch, this is good. I'm glad she felt that comfortable.

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