Hi Bright, it looks as though you have had some wise advice already. I'm sorry you got to receive that hurtful bit of information about your H. I cannot understand why someone would want to think of doing something like that....but I guess I'm not in MLC!!
My H emailed me to say D papers were on the way the day before our anniversary. So I remain thankful for these little mercies. As for whether he will ultimately follow through on this. I would be surprised. I imagine if he 'tests it out' on a couple of people, he will get some comeback on that.....along the lines of 'why the heck would you want to do that??!' Also, what a MLC 'says' they may do...may well turn out to be not what happens at all. And it may help to just remember the chaos within for MLCers. Whilst you have been so hurt by what was said, your H may forget he ever said that in a week/month etc...
Whilst it is hurtful, you have some choices here. You could sit and worry about it until December; dread your anniversary. You could file yourself - beat him to it. Or you could believe nothing he has said and carry on bringing joy and new experiences into your life, healing and look forward to the festive season, whatever new things it may bring....
Take care, Sotto xx
Last edited by Sotto; 09/06/1503:17 PM.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
