I realized last night that I am moving from depression to anger over all of this. Once we got home from dinner she acted nice to me. We put the kids to bed. Then like a light switch about 10-20 minutes after the kids went to bed she didnt want anything to do with me. I couldn't figure it out until about half an hour later when OM called.

Maybe this is normal. I am reading as much on this board as I can in my free time to try to learn more to help myself. I know I still need to detach better, and I am working on it. I am wondering though. Is behavior like this normal for a WW? To act nice to me, almost to the point that we seem ok, one minute, and then to almost act like she hates me the next.

I am reading Sandis "Newcomer LBH with a WAW" to try to help inform myself. I saw a couple of posts about a "script". Is there anywhere where some more info on that would be on that? I know the script of how the OM came into the picture. He was nice and funny to her in the game. Then from there it moved to flirting and finally they came to where she is now, an EA.

As always thanks for all your insight and care guys. I know you want to help me come out of this stronger and a better person no matter the outcome.


M28 F27
Married: 10 years
D4 D3 D3 S1
BD/EA 08/15