VERY good, do a great job on her resume. Good opp to show her you are a great team, though, so ask her for lots of input and "does this sound good to you, I need a second opinion" type of stuff.

I was so angry at my H last night, and acted "as if" I wasn't. It wound up being a good, early night where he actually went to bed at a regular hour rather than stay up playing PS2. Had I voiced my anger, it would have pushed him away. It was nice to get some sleep. A perfect example of giving it time before you react. I can understand how you were hurt when she got angry at you. It seems right now that my H gets hugs when he needs them, but when I am needing support, I don't get any. It's all about them right now, but it helps to remember that we made the choice to make it about them. Our fault.

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