So I had 9 days without my kids which was pretty horrible, especially if anyone saw the UK news coverage this week. My little boy is about the same age.
I've had 24hrs with them and I was really happy to see them and they seemed happy to see me.
XW bought OM1 to both exchanges, so I've met him (apparently my request to meet him away from the kids was ignored).
On the first exchange I was really positive and chatty, today less so to the extent XW asked what's up and I said 'nothing out of the ordinary'
In my exchange with OM, I was friendly. Told him we will never have a problem as long as he is good to my kids and I said that I would like to go for a drink with him because I know nothing about him yet he is a big part of my kids life. I also said I understand if he finds that too weird.
Like I said, today I was less friendly but I think that's because XW seemed much more relaxed and its clear that she and OM are happy together.
Just one last thing, after all the times XW told me I'm not tall enough, how the hell is OM1 shorter than me?????
I'm a bit grumpy today but off out tonight so I'll cheer up.
Take care all.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
