Renew, Popping in to see how things were going. Sounds like you are getting some great advise here. You are nervous & anxious about backing off from doing the things you have been doing which obviously have been working. Trust me I understand. You dont want to give your S any reason to doubt the new and improved you is not a permanent change. Reading your thread I see huge improvements in both you and your M. IMHO I think you are doing a great job, back off slowly from doing the little things you do for her, but only back off if you feel it is the thing to do. In reading this I see your W is like me. I love attention, back rubs, long chats, fashion shows, little post it notes around the house, etc. I am an affectionate person and it sounds like she is too. Take care of you.
Halo
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.