Unfortunately hurting the other person is just another aspect of the MLC. Its hard, but you cannot take this personally nor take the responsibility upon yourself. I knew a guy who was and may still be in the middle of and MLC. He made sure that the sheriff delivered the divorce papers to his spouse on her birthday. he seemed to take great pleasure in this, but it came across and an empty victory to me and to others. It a bad mental illness that has to hopefully heal. Until it does you have to take care of yourself and not take on his issues. december is a long way off as well and it may not come about, so dont dwell on it just keep it at the back and dont be too surprised one way or the other.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"
