[BrightFuture]

Thanks, Job.

Update. Picked my GF from the airport on Thursday and we took off for the vacation home later in the afternoon. While I was putting things together, received a text from H asking me if I would be at the condo on Thursday of Friday. I didn’t notice the text until we were on the road, so I asked my GF to reply that we were driving. He texted back saying that he needs to pick up some clothes and stuff from the condo in the morning. I replied that he could come over any time after 8 am.

So, he came next morning with my male mutual friend. My GF took my dog for a walk, so H didn’t get to see her and my dog. I was trying to take a good look at him, but he was kind of not looking at me for extended periods of time, trying to find something else to do or to look at. It felt like he didn’t really care to even look at me, not even out of curiosity, like most people do when they don’t see somebody they knew for a long time. It was like I was a random stranger. He talked normal thought.

Last night we went out with my GF and my mutual GF who lives here. She said that she needed to tell me a couple of important things. The first one was that they have decided to move to Europe, her H’s home country. This made me sad, because this means I will not see them anymore, unless I make a trip over there.

The second thing she wanted to tell me was that there was some kind of “development” going on with that crazy woman from here and H. It is like H has been getting advice and encouragement on divorcing me. She said that she overheard H telling her H that he is going to ask (or announce) for D on our anniversary. She asked when our anniversary is. I could not believe it! I was hurt. I started crying and asking what did I do to deserve this, and whether he is trying to hurt me. She said that it seems like he is indeed trying to hurt me. Folks, I’m lost. I don’t understand why he wants to do this on our anniversary. Did I upset him that much? The anniversary is in December and right before the New Year’s, which is a big holiday for me. It would be our 20 year anniversary… Why does he want to do this?

This conversation happened after we all had a few drinks, so I might have missed some details. She was upset too, looking at me crying. She said that she should not have told me that, but she felt like she needed to warn me about this. So much for me staying away from the conversations about H. I could totally make it this time. Is there something I don’t see? Is it some kind of setup? I don’t even know what to think anymore.