running around like a chicken without a head

[Sotto]

Hi Overcom. I would recommend doing your own thing when he comes over to do the truck. Don't seek him out, but if he seeks you out, be pleasant and briefish, and break off the convo first.

I would watch out for this whole dynamic with OW. It sounds similar to my sitch. OW has an ex-partner in the background and has been back and forth between him and H. I want no part of that set up. Please pull yourself right out of that.

I also wouldnt' give your H the impression you will be there waiting, if/when he decides to give her up. I would just be silent on stuff like this, try not to engage in R talks and gently pull away & do your own thing.

There's a lot of focus on your H just now. HOw are you getting along with reading the book and your GAL plan. Can you post some of what you are doing for yourself and to try and detach from the situation??