renew-still can't believe how strong you have been. It's like you two are all cozy and she has you doing everything for her plus she gets her OM. Now don't get me wrong, I just re-read your stich and you do everything for her, maybe a little too much, like when you invaded her space in the a.m. She snapps at you in the a.m. for the massage but then oh my calf hurts and you quickly offer her a massage and there goes her leg in your lap for a massage. She is with OM and tells you and then says she is hungry and upon arrival you make dinner for her. You are really bending over backwards--I think a little too far. I would back off on the massages for a while--have you ever gotten one from her. I think and its only my opinion, she is taking advantage of you. Any signs of her leaving OM? I think she needs to start doing things on her own. I would feel cozy if you did all that stuff with me and you didn't get mad when I spoke about OM.