I try to talk about the kids or TV shows.(we both love Gane of Thrones) It sounds bad but we gang up on people together. (Not bullying but we talk gossip to each other and judge peoole together) That was one thing we got from MC was the therapist said we team up against otgers well. Lol
I try to keep it off of us and how we are unless she goes there.
And Fogg I was referring to before my DB changes. She always seemed to have the same opinions and old views of me. She has noticed the DB changes.
I am not looking into it too much because she atill hasnt hit bottom and begged to work on things. But we seemed to have a pleasant family dinner out tonight, and she actually stayed off her phone the whole time. I am thinking it was because on the ride to the restaurant she wanted to talk about our potential D a little (Kids visitation and such mostly)(She still hasnt committed to saying we are gonna D for sure yet, but somehow it moved to me, and I told her "Sure I want things to work between us because you are my wife and the mother of my children, but I know either way I will be happy."
