I love how you both took steps to change the outcome. That is a really good thing. I am so glad the day turned out well, Happy Anniversary smile

What you wrote, about the kids and your marriage....it seems the same story over and over....is that what happens?? We get married, love each other so much. We have a child, which is an overwhelming shift in day to day life, the wife needs help, the husband feels ignored, resentments build.....you could have written my story. I wonder in our cases, if our H need that mothering, see it going to our children, and can't cope with that?

But like you said, the children are older, diaper days are over, time to focus on making the marriage the priority. You sound good, stay strong.


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
-live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-