Rottzilla, I think you were right on the money. Last night we were watching tv together, and I had automatically started to reach over and massage her back. Before even 15 seconds had passed, I caught myself and stopped. Not more than 15 minutes later she mentioned that her calfs hurt from running. I asked her if I may massage her calfs for her and she plopped 'em right up on my lap w/o any hesitation. I played it safe this morning though, just got ready and left, telling her to have a good day on my way out.
