Z- yea...you're right...i guess the logic behind it was that if she was sharing her inner most personal thoughts too it opens up a different type of communication? not just a...hey how you doing kinda thing? We both share those things so idk...maybe your right
But it's all based on her FEELINGS at any moment. Without any context, there is s much room for misinterpretation. And feelings change. She has a fight with OM? Great, you're right there to outlet her frustrations and regrets and repressed desires. Fights over? Time to erase all of that because the OM drug high is back. She's riding a roller coaster and taking you with her by sharing all of these feelings with you.
And at the same time, why do you want to be sharing every intimate thought with her? Why let her know you're right there flopping around on her hook?
TLEE, I agree with Zelda. You've got to let her go to live her life. You've got to start living your life. Maybe someday your lives will cross again in the not too distant future.
