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I am wondering if I am taking the right approach. I am not showering her with gifts or anything, but since i checked out for so long I am trying tobe engage her in friendly conversations now and be nice with her even when she gets angry. I try to help her around the house and such.


Explain how you try to engage her in friendly conversations and are nice even when she gets angry.

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I dont want her to see me cutting the phone off as an act of jealousy and I want to work to resolve her issues about me and our past.


How do you want her to see it?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!