Actually, Renew, I think it's good she got cranky. You obviously haven't been invading her physical space or she wouldn't have been putting herself in a position to get massages from you. Instead, I am of the belief that she probably felt you invaded her emotional space.
A little too close for comfort? Was she feeling something that made her a bit uncomfortable?
When my H touches my hand and then recoils, or looks in my eyes and then recoils before kissing me, it's bittersweet. On the one hand, I swear I see old emotions surfacing. On the other, WHAT THE HECK ARE THEY THINKING?
I am of the opinion you have seen some of Michael's (my H) famous backtracking W/H is a snake and I am afraid of being bitten behavior.
Sorry if I am wrong, but our sitch's mirror each other so often, and that's what I keep experiencing now. H is so close, then pulls WAY away and gets cranky. The good news is, it usually is followed by a really GOOD closeness next as long as I don't get my stupid panties in a bunch worrying about when and how and how long...
Glad you're back. 
